I mean, we all can agree that the internet is a crazy place to be! And amidst this craziness, one guy posted an old photo of Zara Noor and Asad Siddiqui where Asad is applying henna on Zara’s hands and captioned it ‘kesy kesy ran mureed hain dunia mei,’ because hey, judging people is that easy in a desi society:
😂 Kesy kesy ran mureed hain dunia main… pic.twitter.com/Khtyp1dxCE
— Yo Veracious Brother Ali (@iSpeak_my_mind) June 18, 2019
The tweet has now been deleted but we have the screenshot!
As the tweet caught attention, tons of people came forward and schooled him how calling someone a ran-mureed was absolutely wrong and unacceptable and the things people said were SAVAGE!
if i ever get married, I’ll be a run mureed to the moon and back https://t.co/L80bkqc58P
— king loki (@T4NOLI) June 19, 2019
Ooooof, the burnnnnn!
Imagine being pregnant, going through 9 months of labor and excruciating pain while giving birth and this verocious brother comes out. What a disappointment https://t.co/KeVQoGq5iD
— Moochar (@AsliBinLaden) June 19, 2019
Exactly!
For fucks sake, this is such a sweet heartwarming picture. https://t.co/jLjUyLA0nY
— Saad Amjad (@SaadAmjad_) June 19, 2019
Sad but true!
Desis are so used to seeing their parents fight all the time that any form of affection turns into a jibe (ran mureed).
The bar is literally at the floor. https://t.co/KT05roswKc
— Elon Khusk (@therealsnorky) June 19, 2019
Well…
That's so cute, yall are so used to see your father sitting on the couch and ordering your mom that you find such cute gestures ''Ran mureed''
Go help your mom. Idiot https://t.co/9fBXVmqkmi— hope (@bitter_vintage) June 19, 2019
Even we’ve been wondering the same!
You cant do anything nice for your wife anymore….
Make tea for her =ran mureed
Take her out = ran mureed
Carry her bags = ran maureed..
The list carrya on 🙈Just seeing my future wife smile makes me ran mureed..
Then I'm the biggest ran mureed going
— King in the North (@Feel_My_triceps) June 19, 2019
Absolutely, nothing wrong in showing affection towards your spouse
Ran mureed is just a hypocrite word that came out of jealousy, there’s nothing wrong in showing affection to your spouse https://t.co/eWZYAXXpa9
— Glonk (@aHangFire) June 19, 2019
Bhai, bhai, bhai, bhai!
Aesi chutiya mentality wali aulad ko paida hotay he maar dena chaie jinhe aurat ko izzat or muhabbat dena ran mureedi lagti hai. https://t.co/79suHgP3MB
— A. (@Youarebleh) June 19, 2019
Agreeeed!
When a person haven't witnessed someone loving and showing PDA they call people ran mureed who do something really normal for the wife.. https://t.co/H9pXF5NKO8
— Weirdie 🇵🇰 (@chaiandfries) June 19, 2019
Hmmmm
so yer actually calling someone a “ran mureed” just cause he isnt an asshole like you who likes to treat her wife like a fucking nokarani for the sake of his chauvinism? wow. https://t.co/yioxUtz8IS
— Rutaba. (@papakiladorani) June 19, 2019
Hmmmm
so yer actually calling someone a “ran mureed” just cause he isnt an asshole like you who likes to treat her wife like a fucking nokarani for the sake of his chauvinism? wow. https://t.co/yioxUtz8IS
— Rutaba. (@papakiladorani) June 19, 2019
Sahi baat hai:
Agr wo apni ran ka mureed nahi Hoga To Kis ka Hoga? There’s nothing wrong with this image. https://t.co/0CfV7KsO8M
— Strawberry (@strawberysmoke) June 19, 2019
Oh, he is still being schooled about it!
If this is called ran mureedi every men should be ran mureed.!!
Sweetest gesture indeed.
And you need to be schooled about it. https://t.co/EWErRjCD3w— Sammar Amin (@SammarAmin1) June 19, 2019
People even quoted examples from our Prophet Muhammad’s (PBUH) life:
Why do we call these type pf people ranmureed or neche laga hua ha
Have you all forgot HAZRAT MUHAMMAD and his behaviour with his wife wo to is sb se bare kamkarte the apni wife wo un k lie khana bnate the unhe apne hathon se khana khilate the aur hum yh words use karte han https://t.co/tY3ZjDa5vy— KASHAF FAROOQ (@kashu160) June 19, 2019
We stan all the men schooling him!
If you people think love and affection for wife is ran mureedi..
I would like to be a ran mureed for sure man.. https://t.co/TPi7jOhSwR— Rana Ali (@Yallaxhabebe) June 19, 2019
Hahahaha!
Harkat tou kaafi choti ki hai ap nay kisi ki pictures share kar k par chalain isi bahanay soch bari kar lain. Ran mureed hona koi buri baat tou nai hai. Unless someone's manhood felt threatened by the gesture of love and affection. Lol. https://t.co/8xDvnqRRMY
— Abbasi (@Boregram) June 19, 2019
People were asking legit questions, trying to find the connection:
Mehndi lgane se ran mureed ho jate hyn kya 🤔
— F A T i M A 💎 (23 june Kamli’s bday 🎂) (@famaHun) June 19, 2019
Yeh cheeeez!
Wo Ran mureed nahi hai bhai, apki soch chotti hai.
— Fatima (@boreddonut) June 19, 2019
Aameen!
Mashaallah. Allah yeh mohabbat , izzat or dono ki sehat slamati kaim rekhain.
— Zara Haq (@zaraaji) June 19, 2019
Pyar karo toh ran-mureed, na karo toh zaalim!
CHOOTI SOCH KA KHUCH NAHI HO SAKTA. BV SE PYAAR KARO TU RANMUREED. PSYCHO.
— 🥀 (@iamAtifakhan) June 19, 2019
Batao bhaee!
😂 Kesy kesy jahil log hain dunia main… jo khud to 24/7 mele janu ne thana thaya wala drama karte rehte hain but agar koi Husband apni wife ko pyar se treat kare to wo in ko Ran mureed ya joru ka Ghulaam lagta hai 😐
— Anaya 🌼 عنایہ (@Anaya______) June 19, 2019
Definitely!
WTH dude?
If this is how you speak your mind, your mind needs some upgrade.
I hope you won't mind but any sane man would do this and more for his spouse.
It's called being a good husband.— Asad Raza (@asadraza5) June 19, 2019
What still bothers us is that the society has been nourished a certain way where if someone shows even the least bit of affection to their wife they’re labelled as ran-mureeds. Which is why so many men keep their wives deprived of their affection even in this day and age. But what makes us glad at the same time is that people are more than willing to show affection and love to their wives and are also schooling the ones who think of these gestures as ran-mureedi.
And if you still think if showing simple gestures of love make you a ran-mureed then we feel bad for your wife already!