Sadaf Kanwal and Shehroz Sabzwari’s nikkah caused quite the stir on social media, and while many were busy hating on the newly weds, some were actually debating on the topic of doosri shadi itself, and honestly some of the replies are pretty sensible and need to be shared!
If you aren't happy with your existing one then end it – move on & get married again … Normalise second marriage for both genders.. https://t.co/Hs9N3bTHPz
— حاجی اللہ دتہ (@AemunSh3rwanee_) June 1, 2020
Sadly, true:
A right given by islam, disapproved by the women and society, exploited by men https://t.co/rXA8VxpnZ9
— zainab qureshi (@xee_que) May 31, 2020
The shade!
The only Sharae Haq men know about https://t.co/GEjnEOC0r1
— S H a g G y 😴😴 (@khankakarzai) May 31, 2020
Facts:
All guys saying it’s their right for second marriage. It truly is no doubt but 99% wouldn’t want their fathers to do so & see their moms hurt. Also then don’t expect the first wife to stay with u too it’s their right if they want to leave as well. https://t.co/UcwW836UDe
— Tigerlily (@mia__utopian) June 1, 2020
Unfortunately:
Highly misused and exaggerated concept in Pakistan. Has lost its original purpose due to manipulation. https://t.co/2KhMlcyOWf
— Mishel (@HiTweeties) May 31, 2020
Some think that it should only be done if both the wives are treated equally:
اگر بیلنس رکھ سکتے ہیں تو ضرور کریں https://t.co/SRtrH8bvgR
— 𝑨𝒔𝒎𝒊 𝑴𝒂𝒍𝒊𝒌 ™ (@Asmi_Malik_) June 1, 2020
Many think it’s tabboo in Pakistan:
Taboo in Pakistan https://t.co/Ty4tqVCCAc
— پنکھڑی (@mashoom01) June 1, 2020
Some were all for normalizing it:
Normalise it 🙏🏻 https://t.co/dOyixnDMiN
— خان صاحب (@khaansaaib) May 31, 2020
Deep!
"Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence. Second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience.”
~ Oscar Wilde https://t.co/5QbLGg5ZAx
— Dark Roast News™ (@DarkRoastNews) June 1, 2020
Well 👀
مسلمان مرد کی بچپن سے خوائش۔ وہ پہلی شادی کے لیے اتنا پرجوش نہیں ہوتا جتنا کے دوسری شادی کے لیے۔ https://t.co/wOV3mZ0uuw
— ᴇʀɢᴏsᴏʟᴀᴛᴇ (@RstyClinomaniac) May 31, 2020
Some wanted it to be normalized for both the genders:
Koi masla ni. Polygamy is fine but.
Pat aurat ko bhi ijzat ho polyandry ki. https://t.co/kBokfN23wr— dreadnoughtus (@drdnghts) June 1, 2020
#GOALS:
مجھے اتنی سچی محبت ملی ہے اپنی اہلیہ سے جس کا کوئی نعمل بدل ہو ہی نہیں سکتا، دوسری شادی کا تو میں کبھی سوچ بھی نہیں سکتا، https://t.co/osSBbrfT07
— Ahmed Waqar Bibi (@Ahmed_WB) May 31, 2020
For some honesty is all that matters:
100 baar kro
Per dhokay sy nai https://t.co/hCiA97tYl2— ZeesT (@icecrystal1419) May 31, 2020
Agreed:
اگر میاں بیوی کی نہیں بن رہی آپس میں تو وقت پر طلاق لیکر کر لینی چاہیے۔ ہمارے ہاں کہتے کہ بچہ ہو جائے گا تو سب ٹھیک ہو جائے گا لیکن بچوں کے بعد بھی حل جب طلاق ہی نکلنا تو پہلے ہی علیحدہ ہو جانا چاہیے۔ زیادہ پواڑے پڑنے سے پہلے ہی۔وقت پر ہی https://t.co/zevPvUgeOM
— Maria Mukarram (@mariamukarram9) May 31, 2020
Some think that it equals to 3 unhappy people:
Eventually equal to 3 unhappy people https://t.co/rsLasUOIfo
— Khurram Qureshi (@qureshik74) June 1, 2020
Some don’t think second marriage should be an option at all!
No need of second marriage. Just keep your wife happy at home and outside is yours !!! https://t.co/buvwBychhW
— Rana Shazib (@RmShazib) May 31, 2020
Okay…
مرد عشق و عاشقی سے ایک بار ہی شادی کرتا ہے دوسری بار عیاشی اور تیسری نری بد معاشی https://t.co/XMYMMFf7Mi
— اقراءاقراررانا (@Iqx_shobi786) June 1, 2020
Some were ready!
میں تیار ہوں 😂 https://t.co/YMtwkIOmr5
— Mashood Ahmed 🇵🇰 (@mashood85) June 1, 2020
Single lougon ka apna hi rona tha:
اِس کے لیے پہلی شادی کا ہونا ضرُوری ہے😭 https://t.co/SkgRrpn4XJ
— Majid Bhatti (@MajidAB_) June 1, 2020
Meri pehli b nahi hoi 😝😏 https://t.co/hGkhqNHZYH
— Rabee’a (@RabiyaMallick) June 1, 2020
Chalo bhaee:
I am not in favour of even first marriage. https://t.co/Vh4puherV4
— Shanu (@Shani_Awaan) May 31, 2020
Yar 😂
Shadi shadi hoti ha chahy pehli ho ya dosri. https://t.co/zLPmJAy34E
— faizzanzafar 🇵🇰 (@faizzanzafar007) June 1, 2020
Some has conspiracy theories of their own:
امریکا کی سازش۔۔۔۔ https://t.co/H1UiFRluzZ
— Uzair (@Uzair_Afaq) May 31, 2020
We feel you!
پہلی کی ڈیٹ فکس تھی کہ کرونا آ گیا 😅 https://t.co/LbwbaBhHLx
— راؤ سمیر (@FakeDuniya) May 31, 2020
What do you think about the concept of second marriage? Let us know in the comments below!